My Perfect Man

Hello Loves

This may seem like a odd post to be making however at work today my colleagues were playing a bit of a game  (yes they were being very slack) talking about who/what would make their perfect partner. As the gaffer I wasn't invited to play (and of course I was working far too hard to join in); but while being a bus wanker on the way home it did make me think. 

As some of you may know I am married to my best friend and we have been together 11 and a half years but I'm sure given the chance John would morph me into some Kelly Brook / Nigella Lawson / Kate Middleton mixing pot so I'm doing this guilt free.

Let's start with the  fun shallow things :)

Number 1 The big rugby player, now I'm not talking about the small quick chaps I want one of the big boys on the back row. Tall, broad and solid! As a big girly I don't want a man smaller than me and even at 5'7 I like going on my tippy toes for a  kiss.

Number 2 The hair, big thick hair is a must I love playing with it.

Number 3 Glasses, the nerdier the better old school NHS thick frame would be perfect.   

Number 4 Tattoos (the more the better), we know tattoos are hot but for me it's more about having a passion for that kind of art. I also love the confidence you normally find with peeps that are covered in tattoos, it's like this is me this is my style and I don't give a F if you judge me.

Number 5 Beard's / Goatee / bum fluff, I love a big full beard it screams manly to me however any form of face fuzz normally ticks my box.

And the other stuff

Number 6 Must be able to make me laugh, I honestly believe that laughter (and honesty) is the secret to a happy long relationship. If I could only have one thing off this whole list this would be it.

Number 7 An accent, any  strong accent makes me pay attention but my favourite has to be Northern

Number 8 Faith, now this seems odd but I  need a  man with faith. He doesn't necessarily have to be the same as my own but needs to have some form of belief structure. 

Number 9 Must love dogs, every home needs a dog.

Number 10 Needs to understand we will forever have mismatched "vintage" (charity shop) plates, bowls, cups etc. (John hates this one).

Number 11 Not mind that I will be sharing our lives on the Internet.

Number 12 Must love me for me!

Now number 12 may seem crazy as I just listed all the things I want but in the next breath saying that they can't want to change me but it's my list and I'm sticking to it. 

I can't end this without talking about  my lovely hubby John. He is all of the above  (apart from the tattoos he's petrified of needles) and yes I may of convinced him to grow the beard and we owed Darwin before he realised he loves dogs, but I'm pretty happy with the chap I ended up with. We are each others happy ever after :)

Love
Katy
Xxx

PS I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I got this one and it was a lot of bloody fun so you single peeps enjoy it x